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It's kind of scary how we can become enslaved to the 'statistics' on social media. Maybe humans (or some of us at least) have this mentality to compare and compete, and these little hearts and number of 'likes' on our Facebook/Twitter/Instagram/... posts have somehow become a benchmark for comparing our lives. And for what?

I need to keep telling myself this so I won't go insane and obsessed.

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